Yes, they are amazing at coming up with guilt tripping pretexts but what is really going on is no mystery. The way to win is to stop enabling cheaters and liars. No one who is abusive can really demand interaction. They know they are unbearable long term. No one can stand them. If you want to get away from someone, you are more than likely one of many who feel that way. Every narcissist who ever gave me a hard time taught me this. We can move on.

Never forget.

Blackmailers can be blackmailed. The ones doing this also did 911. We all know this. They know we all know this. Their concerted targeting of me taught me this way beyond a reasonable doubt. They taught me exactly who they are and how they operate. We are suffering under the weight of global organized crime. We are fighting the same faction against which Napoleon struggled so valiantly.
We need to finally move on from a paradigm of terrorism and scarcity to a mentality of generosity and abundance. It’s up to each one of us to find out how to manage that switch. It happens in our hearts and minds and souls. Together we are unstoppable.