This is why when this type starts up with me, I don’t respond to them. I identify them through the incongruity they present (they seem full of BS) and they seem to persistently want something from me (usually my time at first). It feels to me like a vampire who won’t stop knocking at the door. It usually takes a while until they finally stop knocking.
I wish I knew how to really help them but nothing I have ever tried really did help unfortunately. My best terrible move with this type is boundaries to keep them away. I sincerely wish healing for all. I simply have learned by now that only people who really want fully truthful help - have the capacity to learn and grow as humans.
