Narcissists can also indulge in threats and they can become very punitive.
Narcissism is the same malignant presence in an individual, a family, a cult or a government system.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissism
It is so important to understand narcissism and to not let narcissists “win” when they attempt to manipulate others. The hallmark of the narcissist is games, tricks, lies, self delusion and unfairly blaming others for what they themselves do.
For some, this mentality can become a way of life.